Volume 15 Post/Email 3 – My Own Vineyard
In the beginning of the love story of Song of Songs is a metaphorical statement by the woman that describes the lives of perhaps every one of us at times. Chapter 1:6 states, "My mother's sons were angry with me and made me take care of the vineyards." So Brian, what's the big deal? The woman helped her uncles - what's the problem?!
Well, the woman continues, "my own vineyard I have neglected."
When we take care of the vineyards of others to the neglect of our own life and wellbeing, we are unbalanced. We can love our mother; our uncles; our family and friends. But we also must love ourselves and tend to our own needs and individual responsibilities. To neglect ourselves because we overextend ourselves and overexpend our energy and time is to the detriment of all. When our own vineyard is well cared for and nurtured, we are then in the best position to ably serve others.
Reflection: While investing in others, what are you doing to invest in yourself?
